Monday, March 30, 2009

Sad news..


I woke up this morning around 7Am. I immediately checked my emails, opened my yahoo messenger thinking my niece might leave some offline messages, then I checked my friendster inbox. I found out I have one message from my former officemate who is now residing in Canada and here is her message...

Hi Kim,
I dunno kung nakabalita naka about kang H.  last week nagbalita si S. sa ako nga naa siya sa ICU kay na heart attack, today i just got the email from C na namatay na siya after na bypass sa Cebu Doc. Luoy pa gyod Kim kay gibiyaan na diay siya sa iyang wife miuban sa laing lalaki. It's really sad. We just pray for him.

AFter I read the message I had this mixed emotion, nagkamali-mali ang type ko I am trembling I am angry I cried. I couldn't believe it! I cried because I know H., we've work together for how many years, we are the original accounting staff in that company and I've no problem with our team until I resigned from work and now he is gone? He is a very good person and I knew he is a good provider to his family. But I  cried more for I pity him for what his wife did to him, I know for sure dinidibdib niya yung pag-iwan nang asawa niya. SAna nga lang maligaya ang kanyang wife ngayon at sana nga lang hinde mangyayari sa kanya ang nangyari kay H. "what you sow is what you reap" kung baga. In remembrance to my friend H. rest assured of my prayers. May you rest in peace. 

14 comments:

Mel Avila Alarilla said...

Condolence to the family of your friend. Do not take it too hard, death is an event that will surely happen to all of us. You can just remember your friend with the fondest memories in your mind. Regarding his wife who left him, let her fate be with God. We can never second guess the motives of other people. Thanks for the post. God bless you always.

Manang Kim said...

Hi Mel, thanks! Yeah death can come to any one of us but I was feeling bad because of what his wife did to her. I pray too for his wife hope she will find happiness and contentment in life.

Mom of Four said...

Ay ang sad nga non. Bakit kaya may mga taong di nakukuntento sa mga spouses nila noh? Siguro nga kaya na heart attack si H. May he rest in peace Manang Kim. Di ko man siya kilala, nalulungkot ako sa nangyari sa kanya.

chubskulit said...

I'm sorry for your loss ate, its very hard to lost a friend. Am sure she'll pay for what she did ate..

Dhemz said...

OMG...my condolences tKim. what in the world...shame on her....grabi naman sad te woi..sige lang karma ray iya...may your friend will rest in peace...wala ba silang anak?

nako very sad naman ang post na ito...siguro kung ako din sa imong situation te...I will cry and get mad too....ang tao talaga.

thanks for sharing!

Manang Kim said...

Hi Mommy Liz, oo nga may mga tao talaga na hinde makuntento sa kanilang spouses. And I think that is one reason why H. got the disease siguro dinidibdib talaga. Kakahiya sa family nang girl ano?

Manang Kim said...

Hi Mommy rose, yup she will in due time.

Manang Kim said...

Hi dhemz, ako nga din nalungkot talaga. For how many years that we worked together I couldn't say that H. is not a provider but I could say that the wife is materialistic!!!! I think they have 1 son siguro at this time college na yung anak nila. What I can do is to pray for both. Thanks for dropping by.

Meryl (proud pinay) said...

I'm so sorry to hear that your friend died =( It's a sad news manang kim =(
I would like to express my condolences to you and to the family...

Manang Kim said...

Hi Mer, thanks much.

Clarissa said...

kawawa naman yung friend mo,Ate Kim--sana maisip naman nung asawa nya ang ginawa nya...kawawa naman...(T_T)Extend my condolences to your friend H's family.May he rest in peace.

^`º_ßÖßËLLê^ª* said...

IM so sad when i read your blog,,bakit kaya may mga ganung tao na hindi na lang makuntento sa mga asawa nila..Hay naku karma yan sa asawa nya.

May your friend rest and Peace....

Manang Kim said...

Hi claire, doon ako lalong na-sad sa pagiwan nang asawa sa kanya because I know that my friend will do anything for her just to be happy and he don't deserve to be treated like that. I know we all have our right time to leave in this world but sana naman walang too much heartache like what my friend had undergone I know for sure na nasaktan yun masyado di pa naman yun klaseng lalaki na ma-bisyo baka nga dinidibdib yung pagiwan sa kanya kaya ayun nag heart attack. May he rest in peace!

Manang Kim said...

Hi belle, oo nga lahat tayo mapa-ask kung bakit. The wife for sure had a reason why but hayyy sana naman ginawang tama diba? Why not go separate ways first then go what ever you like in life, not that iniwan mo lang na mag-asawa pa diba?? Nakaka-sad talaga I never thought that would happen to my friend that also lead to his demised.